The most successful people in the world are the people who can self soothe. If you are being triggered and you look outward and you are angry at the person who triggered you, you are manifesting weakness. Instead look inward and recognize “ok someone has triggered me, that means I have an insecurity and I need to address my insecurity. "That is going to put you in a more powerful position moving forward.
The people who are successful can self soothe, they can stay emotionally calm in the midst of chaos. They are resilient and are always looking for solutions. Learn to switch out of problem mode, into solution form.
Most people can only see the problems. Stop focusing on what isn’t going to work and start looking for a way that it will work. Do not get in your own way in an ego perspective. Do not stop at failure.
